Breakup Reversed by Anonymous

Author:Anonymous
Language: eng
Format: mobi
Tags: &NEW
Published: 2011-07-06T20:24:09+00:00

Reunited

If you get a positive response then you are official y reunited. It was well worth all of the months of planning and preparing.

You’re now on the road to a true relationship. But your journey isn’t over yet! In fact, there’s still plenty of work to be done on both your parts.

Don’t think for one minute that the reasons for your original breakup will be ignored. Take a little time to enjoy the fact that you’re back together. Work on how you’re going to keep your love alive.

Actions Matter

It is actions that matter and not words. The process of being reunited can be confusing, distressing, elating, and put you in a fog of desire. The same is true of your ex.

In the midst of this type of relationship game, morality and decency can get pushed aside, so expect others to resort to dirty tactics to help get what they want. This is why you need to always second guess your knee jerk responses and try to understand the deeper motives behind the behavior of your ex.

Remember that when you first get back together your ex might promise you the moon. However if you are not being promised the moon then you could have a problem.

How to Troubleshoot!

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Sometimes things don’t go exactly as planned. Here are ways to troubleshoot these types of circumstances should they happen.

The Ex Ambushes You!

This is the situation where the ex comes to your house, shows up at your job or starts harassing your friends or family for answers.

A good rule of thumb to follow here is simply ask our friends and family not be involved in your affairs or talk about the situation in any way. Don’t let an ex use your friend as a liaison.

If your ex doesn’t calm down and continues to act in a hostile manner, explain that you refuse to talk to them until they are calm. If this doesn’t work, then you need to walk away.

The Ex Becomes Too Heavy

Sometimes an ex will press for the relationship too soon after first contact has been made and try to make you feel like you owe him or her because you were so hurtful.

If this happens, let your ex do all of the talking because he or she needs to get rid of some emotions. Just let them talk it all out. Don’t be angry or defensive no matter how hurtful some of the things that are being said.

Even if you don’t agree with her or him, just look like you do. You are demonstrating that you understand them and that will cause the anxiety and hostility to collapse of its own weight.

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It is also important to show that you are open by having relaxed facial expressions and body language. Be warm and keep your voice warm and reassuring. This will help prevent a fight happening.

This does not mean you have to agree with him or her. But if you do feel like it –

apologize. Do so without rewarding any bad behavior she is displaying.

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